While doing research to learn about Java, I came upon this website, javatourism.com (facts about Java - local customs and practices), that showed a list of rules that the Indonesians must follow. Here are some of them:
- No physical contact between men and women is made in public, except a possible handshake.
- Be on time for any meetings. Sometimes the meetings start late. However, you are expected on time, and should never make any comment about the meeting starting late or any person arriving late.
- Never stand with your back to an elderly person or a high ranking official. As you enter a room be aware of the people who will be in that room with you.
- Always rise when your host/hostess enters the room.
- Leaving food on your plate signifies you are impolite, so eat all the food you are served.
- Only use your right hand for eating, when touching someone, or handling money/papers.
- Talking is impolite while eating dinner. Conversation is reserved for before or after the meal.
- Never show the soles of your feet/shoes or touch anything with your foot.
- Never touch another person's head, this includes a child's head (such as a pat on the head).
- Never eat while walking in public, or chew on a toothpick. Yawning in public is inappropriate (cover your mouth if you must yawn).
- Remove your hat and sunglasses when going indoors.
- Gifts, though small, are frequently given.
- Gifts are not opened when given. This practice shows the recipient is gracious, not greedy.
Wow, these customs make America look rude and ignorant. I can't imagine living in a place so sheltered and respectful as here. I don't know about you, but I like my flipflops!
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